BEYOND THE IDEA OF “OUR CHILDREN”

Those whom we call “our children” are actually not “ours” but infinitely wise and ancient souls who have already incarnated in this matrix thousands of times.

They have chosen through the infinite wisdom of their soul and with extraordinary laser like precision this specific incarnation, their body, the geographical region, the historical time, their parents and family members, and all of the circumstances that are now part of their life. These choices have been motivated by very specific and powerful reasons that often go beyond the linear and limited understanding of those who play the role of parents.

They, even during their period of temporary role as “children”, are perfectly equipped to face all the difficulties presented at this moment of the human journey, ..and much, much more.

In fact, it is very likely that they are part of those souls who have come here not only to participate in the game of earthly life but also to transform it into a much better game through the exercise of their extraordinary soul skills.

It is therefore important for a parent to refrain from projecting the idea of ​​the “kid / child to worry about” which is nothing more than a “program” which, through the misinterpreted idea of ​​parenting, continues to perpetuate the reptilian / Luciferian cycle of victim / victimizer which is at the root of the problem of the human collective.

Instead of continually projecting their pasts and futures full of contractions, anxieties and fears, the job of the parents is, fleeting moment after fleeting moment, to support what the “child” is by addressing their own personal responsibility towards their true essence, which always and only works through joy, imagination, creativity and the celebration of our uniqueness.

In fact, it is very possible that the “child” was also incarnated to help the parent remember and reconnect with his essence that parents have often lost sight of in the trouble of a life dedicated to an illusory survival.

The interesting thing is that the way in which the parent manages his relationship with his child, whether it is “right” or “wrong”, was also chosen by the soul who incarnated as a “child”.

Therefore, as always, it is best to relax all judgments about ourselves, our children and everything else, as everything is always and exactly as it should be. All we have to do is, at all times, always be ourselves in the capacity in which the awareness we have acquired up to any given moment of our journey allows us.

Contrary to what our mind wants us to believe, the degree of this ability is always and exactly what it must be and what must happen at that moment.